Mamma Mia! Rome Swinger Clubs | Flirt Club Review
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Join us as we recount our unforgettable night at Flirt Club Prive in Rome—a dazzling escape into opulence and allure. With its enchanting ambiance and a perfectly curated crowd, this hidden gem made every moment feel like pure indulgence.
By: Kat Swings
Tucked away in the lush countryside of Lake Bracciano, just an hour’s drive from Rome, lies one of the city’s most exclusive and talked-about swinger clubs – Flirt Rome. Picture this: a secluded Italian villa where the air is thick with mystery and sensuality, and you don’t even get the address until your membership is approved. It’s posh, it’s upscale, and it’s oh-so-sexy. While the hour drive can get pricey if you don’t have a rental car, trust us—it’s worth every penny for a night of indulgence in this seductive haven. (Also, don’t miss our Bad Romance review where a bad club turned into a night of MFM magic for Kat!) Join Kat & Leo as they continue on their summer swinging through Europe as they share an honest review of one of Rome’s most talked about swinger clubs in their latest episode of the Vanilla Swingers podcast.
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Distance from Rome – 1 hour / 70 € each way (personal driver)
After Party Hours – the partygoers started queuing to leave by 3am!
Friday night – 11:30pm – 5am
Saturday night – 11:30pm – 5am
Dinner Hours – if you can swing it, it’s a luxurious, hedonistic fare!
Friday night – 9:30 -11:30pm
Saturday night – 9:30 -11:30pm
Pricing – Super expensive! Prices show a bit cheaper online (we hope!), but this was our price in July 2024. For a Saturday, you’re looking at 270€ with dinner. Add 140€ round trip transportation and for 3-4 hours, you’re looking at 410€ for the privilege. And we hear over 60’s need to pay more, but that’s just rumor.
- Couples – Party
Friday – 150 € (70€ + 80€ annual membership); 210€ at the door
Saturday – 170 € (90€ + 80€ annual membership); 230€ at the door - Couples – Dinner
Friday – 100 € (drinks not included)
Saturday – 100 € (drinks not included) - Single Female
Fri & Sat – FREE (Unicorns!?!🦄 Maybe I should ditch Leo!)
First Impressions – Our night of indulgence kicked off with a VIP touch as Luigi, the club’s suave driver, whisked us away from Rome’s bustling city center. The hour-long journey took us along winding back roads, deep into the tranquil countryside of Lake Bracciano—the very place where Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes once had their fairytale wedding. As we bumped along the dirt roads, anticipation built, and then, like a scene from a movie, the villa came into view. Bathed in soft blue lights that danced through the trees, it felt like we were entering a world of unadulterated poshness. Every detail, from the meticulously manicured grounds to the twinkling lights of the lake below, screamed sophistication. This wasn’t just a night out—it was an escape into a realm of pure, sensual elegance.
“Arriving at the villa felt like stepping into a dream—bathed in blue light and dripping with pure, sensual elegance. “
Inside Tour – Inside, the villa is a sprawling masterpiece of indulgence. We were warmly welcomed by a stunning, body-painted hostess who handled our check-in with flair—no IDs required, just settle the bill when you leave. The expansive villa is a playground of hidden pleasures, with play areas cleverly tucked into every nook and cranny downstairs. One highlight is a round group bed where an artist was body-painting a gorgeous lady, adding an extra layer of sensuality to the scene. It was only missing a smorgasbord of buffet foods laid out on beautiful, naked bodies!
Outdoor Patio – The villa seamlessly transitions to a grand outdoor patio, perfect for uninterrupted indoor/outdoor dining and mingling. As we stepped outside, we were greeted by a hundred elegantly dressed guests in white, enjoying a lavish, wedding-like feast. Dozens of impeccably dressed waiters buzzed around, serving flutes of champagne and platters of decadent delights. Croissants were served with a sparkling fireworks display. Upstairs, a spiral stone staircase led to a group playroom, equipped with the classic vinyl-covered beds for those seeking more intimate sexy encounters.
Bar – The villa boasts two bars: a large indoor bar adjacent to a cozy dance area and a sizable bar on the patio for al fresco sipping. However, be prepared to loosen those purse strings because drinks aren’t on the house—each cocktail will set you back around 10 euros, and they’re not included in your dinner fees either. The bartenders, all dressed in sleek black attire, are young, stylish, and according to Kat, quite easy on the eyes. And no, she didn’t snag any phone numbers this time—just enjoyed the eye candy and the well-crafted drinks!
“At 12:30am, the bell rang for the women to undress while the men barely unbuttoned their shirt—talk about a one-sided dress code! “
Staff –The staff at the villa were a seamless part of the experience, with dozens of young waiters and bartenders dressed in sleek black attire—ironically mirroring our own outfits—amidst a sea of white-clad guests. Their presence was professional yet unobtrusive, skillfully maintaining a balance between attentive service and respecting guests’ privacy. There were no bouncers or security personnel in sight, which created a refreshing sense of freedom for couples to enjoy the villa without feeling overseen. The proprietor, an older gentleman, was notably friendly and made a point to check in with us as we left, inquiring about our experience. He was a rare sight, appearing mainly when he rang the bell for only the ladies to undress—an element of the traditional Italian flair that felt a bit outdated but was in line with the local culture.
Vibe Check – Flirt Club’s exclusivity and members-only vibe don’t just promise an elite crowd—they deliver, making you feel both special and tantalized by the venue’s sultry ambiance. On a Saturday night, the place was absolutely buzzing with no fewer than 150 people, all exuding sex appeal and making the atmosphere as hot as it gets. Surprisingly, the place is quite newbie-friendly. Despite opting for the ‘full swap‘ wristband to avoid looking like rookies, we quickly realized we were in a crowd of fellow baby swingers. We didn’t witness so much as a stray touch, let alone any swapping. So if you’re new to the lifestyle, don’t worry—come and soak up the ambiance without the fear of an orgy breaking out. It’s a welcoming environment where you can ease into the experience at your own pace.
Cleanliness – It’s posh to the extreme, so of course, it felt impeccably clean and welcoming. It was like being invited to an exclusive house party thrown by some ultra-classy friends, a decadent feast for all the senses.
Would we go back? – Despite the steep annual membership fee, the sky-high transportation costs from Rome, and the lack of action on our visit, we’d 110% go back. The setting was among the classiest and poshest we’ve ever seen. Next time, we’ll splurge on staying in one of their rooms at the villa (44€ for a bed / 240€ for a room), waking up in a luxurious naturist paradise and basking in the sun by the pool the next day.
***PRO TIP – If you find yourself in Rome, you absolutely should make the trip. It’s pricey to get there, but if you can swing it, it’ll be one of those bucket list experiences you’ll be thrilled you checked off. Make sure you ask for Luigi to be your driver!
Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!
Naughty Links and Extras! (Fun, Irreverent, and Maybe Passably Useful)
Rome Flirt Club Prive : Totally worth the drive if you’re in Rome! It’s a posh escape that oozes luxury and sensuality, making the trip absolutely worth every euro.
Swingers Club 69: A Gothic mansion decor of tantalizing fun right in the city center. Its haunting charm and sexy atmosphere make it a must-visit when in Rome.
Bad Romance: A teeny tiny hole-in-the-wall swinger club smack in Rome’s city center. After two visits, we personally won’t be returning.
Swinger Lingo (check Swinger Dictionary for more!)
Voyeurism: The art of peeking behind closed doors, where watching becomes the sexiest form of foreplay. A practice in which individuals derive sexual pleasure from observing others engaging in intimate activities.
Exhibitionism: Putting on a show that would make Vegas blush, because why keep all that steamy action to yourself? The act of deriving sexual gratification from exposing one’s own body or engaging in sexual activities in front of others, often for the purpose of arousal or thrill.
Swingers Club: The playground of pleasure, where fantasies come to life and every night is a tantalizing adventure. A dedicated venue or establishment where individuals or couples within the swinging community gather to socialize, explore their sexuality, and engage in consensual sexual activities with other like-minded individuals.
Baby swinger: Newbie swingers just dipping their toes into the tantalizing pool of pleasure, eager to explore and learn the ropes of the swinging lifestyle.
Full swap: When consenting adult partners trade places for a night of passion that’s hotter than a summer fling. Couples trade partners and engage in sexual activities, including intercourse.
Soft swap: Getting oh-so-close to the edge without taking the full plunge – it’s like foreplay on steroids! A variant of full swap where partners engage in sexual activities with others, excluding intercourse, often focusing on kissing, touching, and other forms of sensual pleasure without penetration.
Orgy: A wild, no-holds-barred extravaganza of pleasure where multiple partners come together for a sensual free-for-all. It’s an all-access pass to group play, with endless combinations and sizzling connections!
Lifestyle: More than just a hobby – it’s a way of life filled with passion, pleasure, and endless possibilities. The blanket term used to describe the swinging community and its associated practices, beliefs, and values, emphasizing consensual ethical non-monogamous relationships, open communication, and sexual exploration.