Get ready to dive into the sultry side of Rome with our review of Swingers 69! Picture a haunted mansion vibe that screams Gothic romance, bizarre rules like a no-squirting policy (seriously, who even makes that up?), and 2 nights filled with steamy encounters that left us breathless. So buckle up, because this isn’t just any swinger club review—it’s a tantalizing romp through one of Rome’s most intriguing nightlife spots! Join Kat & Leo as they spill every salacious details visit to Rome’s Swingers 69 Club in the latest can’t-miss episode of the Vanilla Swingers podcast.
Rome Swingers 69 Swinger Club Review
Distance from Rome – 10 min (~15 € taxi)
Nightclub Hours – Singles are by reservation only. Whatsapp is super responsive!
Tues-Thurs, Sun – 10:30pm – 3am
Fri & Sat – 10:30pm – 4am
Pricing – includes 1 free drink per person
- Couples –
Mon, Sun – 60€
Wed-Sat – 120€ - Single Male – Single males ONLY allowed Sundays & Mondays
Mon, Sun – 120€ - Single Female –
Mon, Sun – 30€
Wed-Sat – 60€
First Impressions – As you push open the nondescript double doors of Swingers 69, you’re immediately greeted by a striking red-tinged grand staircase that feels like a portal to another world. The walls are draped in crimson, and a macabre skeletal painting hangs ominously, its eyes seemingly following you as you descend. It’s clear you’ve stepped into a haunted Gothic mansion of erotica, where every detail—from the Victorian furniture to the flickering candelabra—sets a tantalizing mood. This ghostly club became our playground, proving that the spirits of sensuality were definitely alive and kicking in this haunted house of erotic delights!
No squirting? – After checking in with the proprietor, the first thing that caught our eye? A printed sign full of Italian gibberish with one word screaming at us: “SQUIRTING.” Hmm… Intriguing, right? Before we had to surrender our phones, we had to snap a pic. Later, we translated it, and yep, you guessed it—no squirting allowed! Kat was devastated. But managed to break all the rules, per usual!
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Inside Tour – Once you glide down that long, crimson staircase, it’s like you’ve tumbled into a sultry Gothic mansion where every nook is dripping with sexy secrets. Seriously, the club is decked out with authentic Victorian chairs, plush sofas, and settees that makes you feel like you’ve stepped straight into a Gothic romance novel (the kind with all the juicy parts, of course). Where oh where is my corset? The walls are cloaked in luscious crimson, creating an intoxicating vibe that practically begs you to unleash your wild side.
“It’s like you’ve tumbled into a sultry Gothic mansion where every nook is dripping with sexy secrets“
Bar – Nestled between the two sides of this sultry ‘haunted mansion’ is the long bar. This is where you score your two free drinks from a couple of young, respectful bartenders who know how to keep the good times flowing. Feeling a bit peckish? Don’t worry; there are some Lays chips on hand for those who need a little crunch before the real fun begins. And behind the bar? A dazzling display of liquors shines bright, backlit in seductive red, adding to the sheer sultriness of the whole vibe. To top it off, there’s bartop seating all along this bar hallway, perfect for lounging and flirting while sipping your drink, making it the ideal spot to sip, socialize, and set the stage for all the naughty adventures that await!
DJ – There’s no DJ at Swingers 69, but don’t worry—there’s music flowing throughout the club, setting the perfect backdrop for all your sultry shenanigans. One room stands out, free from furniture, almost as if the mansion’s ghostly owners cleared it out for some supernatural spectre dancing. I can’t remember the exact tunes that were playing, but we found ourselves swept up in the rhythm, and let me tell you, it was a vibe! It was here that we had an unforgettable 4-way swap, with both girls squirting—fully dressed and standing up right there on the dance floor. Talk about living on the edge of taboo!
“In the sultry shadows of this Gothic haunted mansion, the air pulsed with desire and promises of wicked pleasures.”
Playrooms –Every room was a tantalizing playroom, draped in sultry allure, where you felt you should be adorned in long gowns, masks, and wigs, ready for a night of debauchery. Coquettish grins beckoned strangers into dark nooks and alcoves, luring them into the depths of forbidden desires. You were invited to indulge on every Victorian couch, settee, and chair, or to take center stage on one of the plush round beds, transforming into the star of your own erotic escapade. Upstairs, the atmosphere thickened with a sultry vibe, where whispers and sighs of ecstasy floated through the air, wrapping around you like a seductive embrace, urging you to lose yourself in the moment.
Vibe Check – The decor was the real MVP of this place—darkly beautiful, seductive, and practically begging you to dive into forbidden desires. It felt like stepping into a Gothic romance novel that had come to life, where feeling sexy was mandatory. Even on what should have been a sleepy Tuesday or Wednesday night, we stumbled upon exactly what we craved. Sure, the crowd was a little light, but the Italians around us were oozing with that undeniable allure, cranking up the sexy vibe to a whole new level!
Would we go back? – Absolutely! Swingers 69 was our favorite club in Rome, hands down. After trying Bad Romance and Flirt Club, nothing compared to the unique, sultry vibe of Swingers 69. Its convenient location downtown, open every day except Monday, combined with that incredibly hot haunted Gothich mansion decor, made it a standout. We were captivated by the atmosphere, and let’s be real—the allure of those forbidden desires is too tempting to resist!
***PRO TIP –We had a blast on those off-peak midweek nights, and we can only imagine how wild (and oh-so-sexy!) it gets on the weekends. Plus, singles are vetted—trust us, we saw some being turned away at the door. So, come ready to unleash your inner vixen and get your sexy on!
Find all of this and more on this episode of our top-rated swingers podcast for new couples to the lifestyle, the Vanilla Swingers podcast!
Naughty Links and Extras! (Fun, Irreverent, and Maybe Passably Useful)
Swingers Club 69: A Gothic mansion decor of tantalizing fun right in the city center. Its haunting charm and sexy atmosphere make it a must-visit when in Rome.
Rome Flirt Club Prive : Totally worth the drive if you’re in Rome! It’s a posh escape that oozes luxury and sensuality, making the trip absolutely worth every euro.
Bad Romance: A teeny tiny hole-in-the-wall swinger club smack in Rome’s city center. After two visits, we personally won’t be returning.
Swinger Lingo (check Swinger Dictionary for more!)
Voyeurism: The art of peeking behind closed doors, where watching becomes the sexiest form of foreplay. A practice in which individuals derive sexual pleasure from observing others engaging in intimate activities.
Exhibitionism: Putting on a show that would make Vegas blush, because why keep all that steamy action to yourself? The act of deriving sexual gratification from exposing one’s own body or engaging in sexual activities in front of others, often for the purpose of arousal or thrill.
Swingers Club: The playground of pleasure, where fantasies come to life and every night is a tantalizing adventure. A dedicated venue or establishment where individuals or couples within the swinging community gather to socialize, explore their sexuality, and engage in consensual sexual activities with other like-minded individuals.
MFM: Two’s company, three’s a crowd – and in this case, that crowd’s getting down and dirty in the steamiest threesome around! An abbreviation for Male-Female-Male, referring to a sexual encounter involving two straight men and one woman, typically characterized by shared sexual activities and mutual pleasure where the woman is the center of attention.
Playroom: The adult’s version of a candy store, where toys, tools, and tantalizing treats await – because who says pleasure is just for kids? A designated space within a swinger’s venue equipped with various toys, equipment, and furnishings for sexual exploration and enjoyment.
FWB: An acronym for “Friends with Benefits,” denoting a casual relationship where individuals engage in sexual activities without the commitment of a romantic partnership. The perfect blend of friendship and friskiness, because why limit yourself to just one type of fun?
ONS: An acronym for “One Night Stand.” When couples decide to dip their toes into the swinging pool for a single night of spicy fun. It’s a quick fling with another couple or single, no strings attached—just pure, unadulterated pleasure! Taboo and maybe anonymous.